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Frankly, if
you need to ask this question about your
skills, or if a bigger penis is
better, then you already have a
big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed
or just low on confidence, I can’t say. The
root of the problem lies in the very simple
fact that it takes a lot of experience to know
if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it.
And even experienced men can’t always tell if
the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you
can never be sure that your performance is top
quality.
And that’s even before we
take into account slip ups and "that time" when
you were too tired or too stressed or you had
too much to drink and, well, you know what
happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode
a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make
him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if
he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some
times are bad and there’s little you can do
about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and
throwing good self-esteem out the window just
because of a slip up is not the way to deal
with this.
There are many things that could go wrong,
which are not necessarily under your control.
We do live in a stressful world and the modern
fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of
machines in order to allow him to work harder
and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin
sex around the world. I’m sure that many men
who have to resort to Viagra would do better to
try and relax a little and take things easier.
Stress is one of the great "sex killers"
nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself
if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses,
nasty co-workers or credit card debt.
Aside from its direct impact on performance,
stress has some side effects that are just as
bad. Some men take to drinking because of it.
It always starts small since going out with the
guys is fun and hey, we’re just having a few
beers. Before you know it the number of beers
grows and the "evenings out" turn into "nights
out". Small wonder that a stressed man with a
significant quantity of alcohol in his body is
not performing in bed as usual. Men need to
recognize the early signs of stress in their
lives and take control of the situation.
Remember that once you’ve started asking
questions about your performance you could
easily slide into a pattern where low self
esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn,
sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to
be a bit more positive about things. You were
probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to
learn some new positions and break the bedroom
routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or
a fantasy. And if you really have a problem,
don’t despair. Every problem has a
solution.
If you are keen to get sex right
every time, then you need Lovecentria™. Lovecentria™
contains the very best in video, written and
interactive sexual advice to ensure that
bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past.
For more information please visit "How to be a Better Lover".
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